Taylor Alxndr, a multi-talented drag entertainer, musician, and community organizer, has made a significant impact in Atlanta’s arts community. As the co-founder of Southern Fried Queer Pride, Alxndr has dedicated their work to empowering Black and QTPOC (Queer and Trans People of Color) communities across the South. Their artistic endeavors and performances are not just forms of self-expression—they are deeply intertwined with community activism and organizing efforts. Alxndr is also the proud mother of the House of ALXNDR, an Atlanta-based drag family that focuses on providing inclusive spaces where marginalized individuals can come together and celebrate their identities.
In a recent conversation, Alxndr shared 11 things that are important to them, revealing their deep connection to the city and its people.
Starting with an appreciation for their neighbors, Alxndr noted, “I love my neighbors. I’ve been close to every neighbor that I’ve had since I moved here in 2011 and in all of the neighborhoods I have lived in.” Alxndr moved to Sylvan Hills in 2020, where one neighbor, Ms. Bell, has become like a mother to them. Their relationship involves daily exchanges over the fence and sharing homemade meals like diabetic-friendly banana pudding. According to Alxndr, building community begins with engaging with those who live nearby.
Another cherished aspect of their daily life is coffee.
“Anyone who knows me knows that I love coffee,” Alxndr exclaimed. “But what I love just as much are the coffee shops that serve as community watering holes.” For Alxndr, coffee shops are ideal places to meet new friends and have insightful conversations. They encourage everyone to support local coffee shops instead of corporate chains, underlining the importance of community ties.
When it comes to navigating the city, Alxndr is a staunch supporter of I-20, which they believe is the best highway in Atlanta. Alxndr humorously argues that unlike other congested highways like 75/85 or the confusing 400, I-20 offers a scenic route through historic Black neighborhoods and artsy locales. It even serves as a gateway to New Orleans, which Alxndr considers a second home.
Alxndr has also found creative spots for their art in the city, particularly on the rooftops of parking garages. “I’ve used several parking garage rooftops for video and photo shoots, but they are wonderful places to get amazing views of the city, especially during golden hour,” Alxndr shared. They encourage exploring these urban heights, particularly those in downtown Atlanta after 5 p.m.
For Alxndr, the best culinary experiences are often found in unexpected places. “The best food in Atlanta is found in gas station parking lots or on the corners of streets by pop-up food vendors who are likely grilling out of the back of their trucks,” they said. Alxndr fondly recalls enjoying the best oxtails and rice from a vendor in East Atlanta Village, emphasizing the soul-nourishing experience of local late-night offerings.
Nature plays a crucial role in Alxndr’s connection to Atlanta as well. They appreciate the robust tree canopy and the hidden spots that let city dwellers escape into nature. “You can go from the hustle and bustle of the city to somewhere that feels disconnected and like a refuge,” they explained. They expressed hope for better wildlife conservation and opposition to environmentally damaging projects like Cop City.
The Atlanta DIY arts scene captures Alxndr’s heart as an ever-evolving hub for creativity. They recognize that despite the challenges posed by gentrification and development, the local DIY venues have birthed some of the most influential art and music over the last 15 years. “I’d rather pay $15 to get into a local DIY venue or dive bar to see a local act than shell out over $150 to see some touring act in a venue where you can barely enjoy yourself because you’re so far away from the stage,” Alxndr asserted, encouraging the community to support local talent.
As a drag performer, Alxndr passionately defends Atlanta’s drag scene. Revealing their bias, they claim, “Atlanta has the best drag, hands-down!” Having performed across the country, Alxndr believes that the local arts community cultivates unique and exceptional entertainers, all nurtured by the commitment to quality within the scene. They urge people to follow the @atldragguide on social media to stay updated on every drag show happening around town.
Alxndr’s commitment extends beyond the arts to social justice and community organizing. They acknowledge that Atlanta’s history is deeply tied to resistance and social movements, and their own journey began with involvement in issues like worker rights, immigrant justice, and LGBTQ equality. “Atlanta’s heartbeat is driven by justice and equality,” they stated, inviting readers to find local organizations to support causes that resonate with them.
Sharing a personal memory, Alxndr recalls their brief experience working at the Plaza Theatre, which, although short-lived, has always been a sanctuary for them. “When you’re there, you are immersed in the art, being in a historic landmark that features a diverse roster of both mainstream, indie, and arthouse films,” they reflected. It’s a venue that has provided both joy and camaraderie, where Alxndr first discovered how delicious nutritional yeast can be on popcorn.
Through these eleven reflections, Alxndr paints a vivid picture of the community and culture that defines Atlanta. Each insight serves not just as a personal anecdote but as an invitation to others to delve into the heart of a city that thrives on connection, artistic expression, and activism.
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